HOW TO GIVE AN EROTIC MASSAGE



A massage is a terrific way to express love, to get close physically, and to progress to the next level of sexual satisfaction. Since the Erogenous Zones are all over the body, an erotic massage is the perfect forum for finding those particular spots and increasing the overall pleasure of your sexual encounter.You don’t need to master any techniques such as Shiatsu or Reflexology in order to give a good massage.All that’s required is the willingness to find out what feels good to your partner.

Here are 10 Steps to follow in Giving An Erotic Massage that she won’t forget:

1. Set the Mood. Soft lighting, scented candles, incense and romantic music all add to the erotic atmosphere you want to maintain. You may wish to turn off the phones. Keep your lubricants and towels nearby.

2. Find an area for your partner to lie down and get comfortable… whether it’s a massage table, a blanket on the floor, or on the bed. She may want a pillow under her head or under her hips.

3. Choose your lubrication. You should only use a water-based lubricant to avoid any vaginal infections (but avoid any lube containing Nonoxynol-9). You may wish to use an oil that has a sexy scent, such as lavender or orange blossom. You can purchase some great Massage and Kama Sutra Oils, as well as candles and massage kits, at one of our affiliates,

4. Once you’ve chosen your lubrication, apply some to your hands and rub them together. This will warm both the oil and your hands, making the sensation more pleasurable for your partner.

5. Have her lie face down, naked. Relax her body and massage her by performing these Basic Massage Strokes.

Sweeping Strokes: Best for massaging large body parts, such as the back. With open hands, use long, sensuous, sweeping strokes.

Detailed Strokes: For smaller, more complicated parts, such as the shoulders, hands and feet. Movements should be firm and short. Avoid massaging areas where the bone is close to the skin.

Kneading: A smooth move for the hips and buttocks or other fleshy parts. Use the thumbs and forefingers of both hands to rhythmically squeeze and release the skin.

Circling: A great basic stroke for such areas as the back and shoulders. Place both hands palm down and move them in opposing circles. Lean onto your hands when you want to add pressure.

You should start with a gentle back rub.Use Circling motions on the shoulder area. Move to the midback and use Sweeping strokes, letting the flats of your thumbs massage the spine. Finish off by Kneading her buttocks.

6. Massage her neck. Put a little oil on your hands and place them so that your fingers are pointing downward at the top of her chest and the flats of your thumbs are touching the back of her lower neck. Draw your hands outward over the shoulders and slide them around underneath the neck

7. Have her turn over. Massage her chest first by sliding the palm of your right hand diagonally across her right breast toward her left shoulder, then doing the same thing on the left side. Repeat 6 times on each side.Splash some oil and using the tip of your index finger, trace a spiral on her breast. Start on the outer edge and slowly make your way to the nipple.

8. Move to the abdomen and use soothing strokes. Then massage her arms and hands, slowly gliding down to her legs. You can brush the genitals in a teasing fashion, and draw this out by brushing her inner thighs. This will arouse your partner, leading to the next stage of erotic massage.

9. Now you can move on to Genital Massage. When performing this on a woman, you can still use your free hand to glide over the rest of her body, tease her nipples, massage her perineum, or caress her face. To begin, go to the clitoris and, with your lubricated finger, make circles around it softly and rhythmically. You can gage her reaction (and moans, hopefully) to determine if you need to move slower or faster.

 10.If all is going well, you can slide your finger into the vagina and make rhythmic gestures.You can also rotate your fingers inside her vaginal barrel with even pressure against all areas of it. Be aware that the shape of the vagina changes as her arousal level increases. Keep stimulating the vagina and clitoris until she can’t take it anymore!

Of course, she can reciprocate and give you an erotic massage at this point.In all likelihood though, she’s going to want to get straight to the hot sex.If you did your job correctly, who can blame her?!